HOW TO NURTURE STRONG FAMILY BONDS IN A MODERN AFRICAN SOCIETY In Africa, the family has always been the foundation of society. Strong families create strong communities, and strong communities build strong nations. Yet in today’s modern world—shaped by technology, urban migration, and global influences—maintaining family unity requires intentional effort. Balancing modern life with cultural values is the secret to building resilient families that can withstand challenges. TIPS FOR NURTURING STRONG FAMILY BONDS SHARE MEALS TOGETHER Eating together has always been central in African culture. It is a time not just for food, but for storytelling, laughter, and connection. In modern homes, make it a tradition to share at least one meal together daily or weekly, without distractions like phones or television. TEACH CHILDREN TRADITIONS AND STORIES Children must know where they come from to understand who they are. Share folktales, proverbs, songs, and family history with them. This gives the...

MARRIAGE, LOVE, AND RELATIONSHIPS: AN AFRICAN PERSPECTIVE ROOTED IN WISDOM AND VALUES  In today’s world, social media has become a marketplace for every voice—loud or quiet, wise or foolish, experienced or inexperienced. Unfortunately, some of the loudest voices on platforms like Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok are those who are least qualified to advise others on delicate matters of family, love, and marriage. Popularity on social media does not equate to moral credibility. A person may have followers, but that does not mean they possess the wisdom, patience, or experience needed to guide others in matters of the heart. As Africans, our heritage teaches us that marriage and family are sacred. They require wisdom, emotional maturity, patience, tolerance, and moral discipline. These are not skills picked up from likes and comments—they are values nurtured over time through community living, cultural training, and elder guidance. The Toxicity of Unguided Advice Some relat...